Worship

"We're All In It Together"

A Sermon for Association Sunday by Rev. Charles Blustein Ortman
October 3, 2010

READINGS: ANCIENT AND MODERN

Our ancient reading is, The Space Within, by Lao Tsu:
Thirty spokes share the wheel's hub;
It is the center hole that makes it useful.
Shape clay into a vessel;
It is the space within that makes it useful.
Cut doors and windows for a room;
It is the holes that make it useful.
Therefore profit comes from what is there;
Usefulness from what is not there.

Our modern reading is, The Task of the Religious Community, by retired Unitarian Universalist minister, Mark Morrison-Reed:
The central task of the religious community is to unveil the bonds that bind each to all. There is a connectedness, a relationship discovered amid the particulars of our own lives and the lives of others. Once felt, it inspires us to act for justice.
It is the church that assures us that we are not struggling for justice on our own, but as members of a larger community. The religious community is essential, for alone our vision is too narrow to see all that must be seen, and our strength too limited to do all that must be done. Together, our vision widens and our strength is renewed.

SERMON:

This morning we join hundreds upon hundreds of other Unitarian Universalist congregations across the continent in celebration of our fourth annual Association Sunday. This year the theme is the 50th anniversary of the merger between the Unitarians and the Universalists, as they came together back in May of 1961, to form our Unitarian Universalist Association. It was not an easy process of merger that those two organizations made their way through. And it is one that in many ways continues towards fuller completion as we grow into a stronger religious movement. Still, it is 50 years later and that warrants our notice and I hope our support.

For those of you who might remember the histories of our two predecessor denominations, you'll recall that while there were traditionally strong theological similarities between them, there could have hardly been a greater socio-economic gulf. Universalists were blue-collar and agricultural working families who believed that a loving creator held all of creation dear. Unitarians were of the highly educated classes and believed that a division of the godhead into three persons flew in the face of any understandings they had of a loving creator.

In fact Hosea Ballou, one of the two major founders of the Universalism, and William Ellery Channing, an early leader of the Unitarianism, had conversations about a potential merger near the beginning of the 19th Century. The truth is that the socio-economic divide was so great that it was impossible to bridge at that time. It's reported that Thomas Starr King, an energetic Universalist evangelist who went on to become governor of California, once mused on the differences between the two groups sayings, "Universalists believe that God is too good to damn anyone, while Unitarians believe that they are too damn good for God!"

All of that withstanding, times change. By the mid-20th Century both denominations found themselves seriously dissipating and they began looking fondly at one another as a means of establishing a critical mass for survival. They also found that the shared elements of their theological perspectives provided a stronger base upon which to build a sustainable religious movement: one god at most and an awareness that we are all in this together - for any of us to be saved we must all be saved. There is no god who has chosen favorites and, if we are not to destroy this planet, we will need to be sure that all of our brothers and sisters have the same means of sustainability as ourselves. Our spiritual quest in this lifetime is not so much an individual or independent journey as it is a shared process within the context of shared resources. At least that's my take on what has evolved theologically since the merger of the movements.

After several years of negotiations and a three year voting process in each association, the unification became formal in May 1961. Both institutions held their annual meetings Boston that year. At the designated hour they left their separate meeting spaces and processed into an emerging flow of newly formed Unitarian Universalsits. They entered a common hall singing a hymn that had been written for the occasion. We will sing that same hymn in a few minutes, "As Tranquil Streams."

As tranquil streams that meet and merge
and flow as one to seek the sea,
Our kindred fellowships unite
to build a church that shall be free.
Free from the bonds that bind the mind
to narrow thought and lifeless creed;
Free from a social code that fails
to serve the cause of human need;
A freedom that reveres the past,
but trusts the dawning future more;
And bids the soul, in search of truth,
adventure boldly and explore.

The first challenging opportunity the newly consolidated Unitarian Universalist Association had to bid the soul in search of truth to venture boldly and explore came just a few years later as it found its place at the center of the Civil Rights Movement, and then again as a haven for those who opposed the Vietnam War. Our numbers swelled enormously as we discovered our religious impulse to build a faith free from the bonds that bind the mind, heart and soul from thoughts and codes that fail to serve the cause of human need. We claimed our place in the struggle for justice, as we raised our voices and took to our feet on behalf of women's rights, and then gay and lesbian rights and gender identity.

Over the past many years, many of you have approached me to share stories of how Unitarian Universalism has saved your life. I know that it has saved mine. The question is though, how many lives out in the world have the potential to be saved by a religious tradition, bound not in creed, but in a covenant to make this a more loving, respectful and sustainable world? And then the question is, how do we support such an institution?

The theme of this year's Association Sunday and its goals are laid out on the back cover of your order of service. We want congregations that are spiritually deep places where strong and enduring relationships can flourish, and that are engaged in their communities as a source of moral vision and effective action. We want our religious homes to be truly multi-generational and reflect the racial and cultural diversity of the wider world. We also want professional religious leaders who are visionary, spiritual, innovative, and diverse.

Our current president of the UUA, Peter Morales, ran on a platform which said, "We can be the religion of our time. We can only do this together…as an Association." Indeed, Peter's presidency is dedicated to the objective of making our religion accessible to the changing demographics of our culture.

How do we support such an institution? We will be taking a special offering in a few minutes and we are each asked to give $20 or more. I would invite you to consider matching my gift of $100. Why? Because it matters. There are so many stories of how Unitarian Universalism matters in the world. I am constantly amazed at how the children of our movement, the children of this congregation, go out into the world finding ways to serve the larger good and to promote the Spirit of Life, even in this complex time and world in which we live. And even though we may be small in number, I don't know what the world would be like, what it would be missing, if there were no Unitarian Universalist Association supporting our congregation and others like it.

I was approached by a woman at the Y the other morning. She's someone I've been friendly with for a while, and she's an active member of another congregation here in town. She asked if I'd been following the very sad story of Tyler Clementi. I had. Tyler Clementi, as most of you now know, was the gay freshman at Rutgers University whose sexual encounter in his dorm room was webcast by two of his classmates. He committed suicide the next day.

"I can't help but thinking," my friend at the Y said, "that the two kids who are facing charges in that case are guilty of anything but making a poor choice at one given moment in their lives."

"Heroes are also made in such singular moments," I suggested.

"Yeah, but those kids didn't think about the consequences of what they were doing. They had no idea he'd commit suicide," she said.

I tried to explain to her the incredibly horrifying statistics related to the fragility of gay and lesbian youth, which they suffer as a result of our incredibly homophobic culture. Her eyes began to glaze over. I know that in her church, homophobia is enshrouded in a cloak of righteousness, self-righteousness I would suggest. Still, I know that my friend knows better. And yet because of the religious perspective of her faith community, I have to think that there is no impetus for her or members of her tradition, or for so many other traditions, to look beneath the surface of cultural mores and behaviors to determine the unseen fabric of oppression and injustice at play. "It was just an unfortunate outcome," she concluded.

I don't think it was simply an unfortunate outcome. I think it was a likely one. I think Tyler Clementi's classmates had been taught, throughout their lives, that bullying gays and lesbians, was just part of the privilege of being straight. While I believe there is certainly hope for redemption for those classmates, I think that what they did was incredibly hateful. And more, their actions shine a light on the culpability of a culture that, as illustrated by my friend's comments, is willing to easily forgive such heinous torture of innocent victims. There are many religious traditions that are theologically quite comfortable in matters of the oppression of gay, lesbian, bi and transgender persons. Our own tradition though, the one we celebrate today, recognizes homophobia as the sin; not the other way around.

I am sorry to realize that the children in my friend's church don't have the opportunity to learn about sexuality in a nonjudgmental environment like our kids do in the Our Whole Lives curriculum. I'm sorry that the kids in her congregation don't go through a Coming of Age Program like our high school kids who are not required to believe in any patriarchal cosmology, but instead are encouraged to explore their own beliefs. They are encouraged to be accountable for their actions in the world, and to stand up for those who are marginalized. We cannot afford unfortunate outcomes when the lives of our children are at stake. We cannot afford predictable outcomes when the well-being of any of our brothers or sisters is compromised by oppression; when the sustainability of our planet is placed in peril by the impulses of consumerism and greed.

We are called by our Unitarian and Universalist traditions, by our faith and by our consciences to be aware of our world and of the effects that we have in our world. I would hardly contend that we are the only religion with a monopoly on such values. But that is what our faith tradition affirms and promotes in each of us - that we pay attention to our world and that we be accountable for our relationships in it, and with everyone and everything in it. That is what our tradition supports as a religious voice in a world that is too often divided by orthodoxies of comfortable self-righteousness. This is what it has done for 50 years now. It is what we must continue to do in the unfolding of time.

Today we join with hundreds of other Unitarian Universalist congregations that have gathered to celebrate the Association that is home to this religious enterprise that holds out hope, not only for each of us who is here, but for a world that needs to learn that loving one another is of far greater consequence than the prospect of being right.

We can be the religion of our time, of this very time and of the time yet to come.

"Be ours a religion [then]…" wrote Theodore Parker, 19th Century Unitarian minister, abolitionist, supporter of women's suffrage and confidant of Abraham Lincoln.
"Be ours a religion which, like sunshine, goes everywhere;
its temple, all space;
its shrine, the good heart;
its creed, all truth;
its ritual, works of love;
its profession of faith, divine living." Amen